Culture & Management
Why your Philippine hire is not telling you there is a problem
In short
Philippine workplace norms tend toward less direct upward disagreement, particularly early in a relationship and particularly with a foreign manager. Combined with a time gap where every question costs a day, this produces hires who keep working on what they can rather than flagging that the main thing is blocked. It reads as steady progress and is discovered at the deadline.
This is the single most common thing foreign managers get wrong in this market, and it is almost always diagnosed as the wrong problem. The manager concludes the hire was not proactive. The hire concludes nobody wanted to hear it.
What is actually happening
Two things compound.
The first is cultural. Direct upward contradiction is generally less comfortable in Philippine workplaces than in American or Australian ones, especially early in a relationship where the norms have not been established. This is not deference in the sense of not having a view. It is a preference for raising things in a way that preserves the relationship, which often means indirectly, later, or to a peer rather than a manager.
The second is structural. At a gap of 7 to 16 hours, asking a question costs a day. After 3 or 4 cycles of waiting, a reasonable person starts making their own call instead. That is not a cultural trait, that is arithmetic, and it would happen to anyone.
Neither is a capability problem. Both are predictable and both are the manager's to solve.
The first is cultural. Direct upward contradiction is generally less comfortable in Philippine workplaces than in American or Australian ones, especially early in a relationship where the norms have not been established. This is not deference in the sense of not having a view. It is a preference for raising things in a way that preserves the relationship, which often means indirectly, later, or to a peer rather than a manager.
The second is structural. At a gap of 7 to 16 hours, asking a question costs a day. After 3 or 4 cycles of waiting, a reasonable person starts making their own call instead. That is not a cultural trait, that is arithmetic, and it would happen to anyone.
Neither is a capability problem. Both are predictable and both are the manager's to solve.
What it looks like from your side
Steady progress on things that are not the priority.
Work that is technically complete and misses the intent.
Status updates that are accurate and omit the blocker.
A yes that meant I understand rather than I agree.
The common thread is that nothing looks wrong. That is why it is usually found at the first deadline, by which point the person has been stuck for weeks and has drawn their own conclusion about whether they were set up to succeed.
Work that is technically complete and misses the intent.
Status updates that are accurate and omit the blocker.
A yes that meant I understand rather than I agree.
The common thread is that nothing looks wrong. That is why it is usually found at the first deadline, by which point the person has been stuck for weeks and has drawn their own conclusion about whether they were set up to succeed.
What does not fix it
Telling people to speak up. It is the standard response and it changes nothing, because the person already knows they are allowed to in principle.
Asking whether everything is fine. The question invites the reassuring answer and both parties know it.
An open door policy across a 14 hour gap. The door is closed 14 hours a day regardless of intent.
One conversation about culture at onboarding. Norms are learned from what happens after someone raises something, not from what they were told at the start.
Asking whether everything is fine. The question invites the reassuring answer and both parties know it.
An open door policy across a 14 hour gap. The door is closed 14 hours a day regardless of intent.
One conversation about culture at onboarding. Norms are learned from what happens after someone raises something, not from what they were told at the start.
What actually changes it
Ask specific questions. Not how is it going. What is the thing you are least sure about. What would you do differently if you had another week. What is blocked right now. Specific questions are easier to answer honestly than open ones.
Ask for written status before the call, not during it. Writing removes the real time social pressure and produces more candid answers.
Respond well the first time. The first time someone raises a problem sets the precedent for everyone. If the response is visible relief and support, the behaviour repeats. If it is even mild irritation, it stops permanently.
Make being wrong normal above them. A manager who says publicly that they were wrong about something makes it substantially safer for others.
Reduce the cost of asking. A named person in a compatible time zone who can unblock small things is worth more than any amount of encouragement.
Ask for written status before the call, not during it. Writing removes the real time social pressure and produces more candid answers.
Respond well the first time. The first time someone raises a problem sets the precedent for everyone. If the response is visible relief and support, the behaviour repeats. If it is even mild irritation, it stops permanently.
Make being wrong normal above them. A manager who says publicly that they were wrong about something makes it substantially safer for others.
Reduce the cost of asking. A named person in a compatible time zone who can unblock small things is worth more than any amount of encouragement.
What this costs when it persists
The visible cost is rework and missed deadlines.
The larger cost is that capable people leave. Someone who concludes their judgement is not wanted stops offering it, and eventually stops staying. The replacement cost of a failed hire runs 30 to 200 percent of salary depending on seniority, and the departure is usually attributed to something else entirely.
It is worth being direct about this: the market supplies people who are perfectly willing to disagree with you. Whether they do is decided by what happens in the first month, and that is your decision rather than theirs.
The larger cost is that capable people leave. Someone who concludes their judgement is not wanted stops offering it, and eventually stops staying. The replacement cost of a failed hire runs 30 to 200 percent of salary depending on seniority, and the departure is usually attributed to something else entirely.
It is worth being direct about this: the market supplies people who are perfectly willing to disagree with you. Whether they do is decided by what happens in the first month, and that is your decision rather than theirs.
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